Today's Sin

No, I'm not going to confession online, I'm writing about a topic that came up at the office today. Am I the only one who thinks that in our society the only recognized sins are "intolerance" and "judgmentalism"? If I say that someone ought not do something (particularly if that "something" goes against traditional sexual morality) then I am intolerant or judgmental, which are bad things. However, the people calling me intolerant or judgmental are not, I guess, because ????