Sunday, January 31, 2021

Review: Ten Ways to Pray

 



About the Book:

Whether you are just beginning to develop a consistent prayer practice or are looking for a new approach to spiritual growth, Ten Ways to Pray will explore a variety of traditional forms of Catholic prayer that enable you to draw closer to God and the communion of saints.

This practical introduction to ten traditional forms of prayer from the McGrath Institute for Church Life at the University of Notre Dame will help you develop a richer spiritual life that draws you closer to the triune God and the communion of saints. Carolyn Pirtle provides intriguing bits of history, engaging spiritual and theological commentary, and step-by-step guidance for trying ten distinct ways of praying that Catholics have utilized across the centuries and around the world in order to develop your own prayer practice.

These include praying:

with scripture
to consecrate time through the Liturgy of the Hours and the Angelus
through experience in the Examen
through action in the Works of Mercy
through the beauty of nature, art, and music
through silence

My Comments:

Every year I make New Year's and/or Lenten resolutions to improve my prayer life.  In keeping with those resolution, I often obtain a book, and many of them languish on my bookshelf or NetGalley queue because I'm going to get to them when I have time to read them or whatever the excuse of the week is.  Since Ten Ways to Pray was a NetGalley offering in January, I grabbed it.  

It really is one of those "no excuses: books.  The writing style is conversational and easy to read.  The book is broken into chapters for each type of prayer.  Each chapter begins with "What is this form of prayer", a section that describes the form. Next is "Why might a person pray this way?" that gives you an idea of whether this form of prayer might be for you.  "When and where can one practice this form of prayer" is pretty self-explanatory, but it addresses real issues people have in their lives--you aren't going to be able to spend 30 minutes in contemplation if you are the only adult in charge of three small children who are awake.   The next section in each chapter is "How does one pray this way in practice" which gives concrete ideas for doing this type of prayer.  For example, the section on praying with Scripture gives the five steps for lectio divina.  

While the book has an extensive bibliography to allow readers to more fully explore topics of interest, this book is only 192 pages and is a quick easy read.  Since the Bible is my book for the year (see Do You Prefer Your Bible Fast or Slow) I'm going to focus on the section on praying with Scripture.  

I'd like to thank the publisher for making a review copy available via NetGalley.  Grade:  B+


Sunday, January 24, 2021

Money Books to Consider

 Getting your financial house in order is a New Year's resolution for many, and lots of authors are willing to help you do so.  I'm looking through my NetGalley shelf and have found several books I acquired with the idea of reviewing them on my now-dead financial planning blog:  Racing Towards Retirement.  I lost my enthusiasm for that topic, and blogging in general until recently, and I've chosen to review the books here, rather than there, because people actually read this blog.  None of these are new to the market but you could learn something from all of them.





About the Book:

 A perennial bestseller for over two decades, now Bach returns with a completely updated, expanded and revised edition, Smart Women Finish Rich, to address the new financial concerns and opportunities for today's women.

Whether you are just getting started in your investment life, looking to manage your money yourself, or work closely with a financial advisor, this book is your proven roadmap to the life you want and deserve.

With Smart Women Finish Rich, you will feel like you are being coached personally by one of America's favorite and most trusted financial experts. The Smart Women Finish Rich program has helped millions of women for over twenty years gain confidence, clarity and control over their financial well-being--it has been passed from generations to generation -- and it now can help you.

My Comments:

While marketed to women, this book has good advice for men too.  It is written in a chatty, conversational style that is both encouraging and challenging.  David Bach encourages readers to put their money where their values are, to take stock of where they are, to work at getting rich in small increments, and to teach their children about finances. He gives a basic overview on investing and talks about how taxes figure into everything.  He encourages readers to not only save money and invest, but also to make more money--to ask for the raise, to leave jobs that don't pay well.  If you don't have a financial plan for your life and know little about investing, this book is a good place to start.  Grade:  B+




My Comments:

I usually paste in the book blurb but in this case it is huge, so I'm just going to tell you that if you know nothing at all about investing this is a good place to start.  The writing style is much more blog post than college economics text book, but Ted Snow covers all the basic terms you see when you look up stocks such as market capitalization, p.e. ratio and free cash flow.  He discusses stocks, bonds, options and more and tells you how you can make money on them--and why you might not.  The book includes eye-catching graphics.

I doubt there is anything in this book that most experienced educated investors don't know--and really, that's a good thing.  He doesn't share any secret formula or tell you that if you only _____ then you are guaranteed to have a gain of X%.  However, if you don't know the difference between and ETF and an option, this is the book for you.  Grade:  B+





About the Book:

In 2010, 24-year old Grant Sabatier woke up to find he had $2.26 in his bank account. Five years later, he had a net worth of over $1.25 million, and CNBC began calling him "the Millennial Millionaire." By age 30, he had reached financial independence. Along the way he uncovered that most of the accepted wisdom about money, work, and retirement is either incorrect, incomplete, or so old-school it's obsolete.

Financial Freedom is a step-by-step path to make more money in less time, so you have more time for the things you love. It challenges the accepted narrative of spending decades working a traditional 9 to 5 job, pinching pennies, and finally earning the right to retirement at age 65, and instead offers readers an alternative: forget everything you've ever learned about money so that you can actually live the life you want.

My Comments:

Grant Sabatier uses himself as Exhibit "A" on how to turn your financial life around .  He gives pretty standard career advice about making sure you are paid what you are worth, learning all you can not only about your job but the jobs of others as well, and not being afraid to change jobs when necessary  He advises that you get a side-hustle of some sort and then gives some very basic investing advice.  

I'd say the strength of the book is the advice on how to handle your main job and how to acquire a profitable side hustle.  The other financial information is pretty basic--but then lots of people need basic.  Grade:  B



About the Book:

The road to financial well-being is complex. En route, you face an overwhelming variety of complicated choices--from deciding which job to take to determining how best to spend or save--that can impact your financial life in ways that are often difficult to predict.

Author Paul Bennett knows there is no decision that is not connected to your financial well-being. With over twenty-five years of experience, as a CERTIFIED FINANCIAL PLANNER(TM) professional he also knows that navigating those decisions doesn't have to be so hard. The Money Navigator examines:
- Key insights into human economic behavior
- Reasons why investors make poor decisions
- Why financial and insurance products are so misunderstood
- How a Money Navigator--a full-scale CFP(R)--can help you invest well and manage your financial life with ease.

​With fresh insights and real-life examples backed up by in-depth research, each chapter of The Money Navigator offers you practical takeaways for you particular situation, whether you find yourself on the cusp of retirement, are already retired, or are facing a life transition. Bennett's expert navigation and advice propels you toward the life you always imagined and equips you with the tools to attain your goals.

My Comments:

The strength of the book is the way it asks you to look at  how you make decisions and points out how that process may not be in  your best interest.  

While there is basic investment and financial planning information, it is pretty basic.  

Unfortunately, much of the book sounds like an ad for a financial planner.  Grade:  B-


Monday Memes

This post links to It's Monday What Are You Reading and Mailbox Monday.  


Well we all survived last week.  I'm one who was disappointed in the results of the election for two reasons--first I wanted the results to be definitive, one way or another, and second, I didn't want a Democrat-controlled government, but I was not at all pleased with the "rally" last week or Trump's behavior in the last four years, especially last week.  But on to books. I reviewed two Susan Mallery books:





My Review


 I got several new NetGalleys recently:






I had accumulated quite a few financial planning NetGalleys so I did a big post highlighting several of them  

What have you been reading?

While not book-related, I reviewed three clothing boxes I ordered (Amazon, StitchFix and Thred-up)

Friday, January 22, 2021

Amazon Prime Wardrobe Personal Shopper vs Stitch Fix vs Thred Up

 My favorite store, Dress Barn, shut down a year ago.  Yes, I know they have a website but its not the same and the prices are higher.  I'm sure Covid isn't helping, but I got a substantial Macy's gift card for Christmas and just wasn't impressed by what I saw there.  Depending on my weight this month, I'm at the top of the standard sizes, or the bottom of the plus sizes.  I'm not 16 and don't want to look like I am, but my budget is far closer to H&M than Saks.  

I've been experimenting with style boxes.  I reviewed Dia &Co a few years ago, twice. Every now and then someone will use my link and I'll get a free styling fee from them, and order another box.  I haven't bought a lot from them as I found the clothes to be expensive and, after a few boxes, very similar to each other.  If you want to try them, here is my link--use it and we each get a box sent to us with no styling fee.  Click here. 

Last summer I read that Amazon has a new service called Prime Wardrobe Personal Shopper.  Basically, Amazon has a certain group of clothes, many of which are their own brands, which are tagged as Prime Wardrobe.  If you are a Prime member, you can go on Amazon, pick up to eight such items and they will ship them to you without charging your card.  Once you get them, you try them on, and then send the rest back via the enclosed pre-paid mailer.  Unfortunately when it comes to fashion, Amazon's search engine is not the best and I get tired of looking at page upon page of stuff.  That's where the "Personal Shopper" comes in.  You tell the app what you like and don't like and then it (and to some extent--probably not much--a personal shopper) pick out 10-12 items for you.  You look at them online and select up to eight.  You can order in the selected color or change it (if other colors are available on Prime Wardrobe).  I was pretty happy with what they sent in the first couple of boxes (read my review) but then it started to get repetitive.  Amazon's styling fee is $4.99 and it is not applied to purchase.  

On my mad tear through subscription box land this time I decided to try Amazon again, and to try Thred Up and Stitch Fix for the first time.  So, what did I get?

Amazon sent me an oatmeal colored Cowl-neck sweater that I really considered buying. 


I got some Lee black trousers which were fine, but nothing I really needed, and they were $45.00.  A black long sleeved t-shirt was $45.00. A $44.90 red cardigan fit funny, and I already have a red cardigan.  This sweater didn't do it for me either, especially at $49.90.  At $34 this grey sweater didn't do much for me either. 

 

 I ended up buying black leggings for $24.99 and a burgundy sweater for $32.98. 

Burgundy Sweater

If the box had been free, say a gift, I would have kept the cowl neck sweather, the black pants and the black tee, and worn them, but I didn't like them enough to buy them. 

I'd never tried Stich Fix, which kind of started the whole fashion box business so I gave them a shot.

Stitch Fix sent me five items.  They have a $20 styling fee, which is applied to any purchase you make.  The pack included a scalloped neck sweater in a shade of green that made my green eye "pop" so of course I bought it, even if the $58 price tag was kind of steep. 


I also kept a long sleeved patterned blouse at $48 because I thought it looked good on me. I sent back a mustard color cardigan, a red patterned blouse and navy patterned dress.  If this box had been a gift, I would never have worn them.  If you want to try them, use my link, and we'll both get $25 credit.  


Thred-Up is an online consignment shop for used clothing.  They offer a "Goodie" box for a $10 fee that is applied to purchase.  They send you 7-10 pieces, supposedly based at least somewhat on your style quiz, but the note that came with my box said something about it not being personal styling.  I guess what it means is they do the best they can to send you stuff you'll like, but they can only send what they have.  Surprisingly, if I had gotten the clothes in this box as gifts, I would have worn all of them. 


I guess that if you send black, its hard to go wrong, because everything in the box was black or had a pattern including black.  The price of most pieces was around $15 though one sweater was $38.  I ended up keeping a pair of jeans, a black turtle neck, and a pair of black slacks. I think this is going to be my go-to "I don't know what I want, why don't you figure it out" box.  If you use my code, you get $10.00 off your first purchase, and I get a $10 credit too.  I don't know how representative the box they sent me was, but I found it contained several brands that I wouldn't buy new because of the cost..  Had I needed them, I would have paid Thred-up's price.  


 


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