Friday, July 31, 2015

Book Blogger Hop: July 31-August 6

Book Blogger Hop
Book Blogger Hop is hosted at Ramblings of a Coffee Addicted Writer.

 This week's question is:

Do you collect things that are book related? Like bookmarks, nameplates, 1st editions. 

No, I'm not a collector.  I don't even collect books, as a general rule.  If someone gave me something that meant something to me because of who gave it to me, or why, then I'd keep it for that reason.  

Seven Quick Takes

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Hello, and welcome to This That and the Other Thing.  Here are my Seven Quick Takes this week:

1.  We took a family vacation to Gulf Shores, AL this week.  Someone with whom I work has a house that he allows people to use.  It is fully furnished and even had toys like crab nets and crab traps.  It was on a bayou so we got some chicken necks and tried out hands at crabbing.  While we didn't get a meal's worth, we did get enough to make it worth boiling them.

2.  Gulf Shores means beach and we love the water.  Unfortunately one day my youngest got stung by a jellyfish.  Nevertheless we headed back the next day and there were no jellyfish then.

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3.  My youngest and I are going to New Iberia and Lafayette with the Girl Scouts tomorrow.  The Tabasco factory is one place we will be visiting.

4.  My son wants to go to Blue Bayou, a local water park.  My youngest and I will go there on our GS trip and my older daughter and husband do not want to go.  Honestly, neither dor  I but I figure he deserves to get to do something he wants to do on vacation, so he and I are going to Baton Rouge to Blue Bayou this afternoon.  Hopefully, the lines won't be awful and he can do what he wants to do and we can come home.

5.  One more full week of vacation and then a week with two half days of school.  I hate half days.

6.  Do you like to cook?  I'm participating in a giveaway that offers lots of goodies for a cook.  You can enter too.

7.  Have you ever had a large number of hits on a post and couldn't figure out where they came from?  My review of APerfect Son has 384 hits, which for me is a lot yet my stats don't give me any clue why this post is so popular.  There is no big incoming link, no popular search term, it is just there and the numbers get better every day.  I guess I just need to smile and enjoy it.

Have a great week!

Monday, July 27, 2015

Review: Secret Sister

About the Book:
Did she once have a sister? Has her mother lied all these years? Why? 

After a painful divorce, Maisey Lazarow returns to Fairham, the small island off the North Carolina coast where she grew up. She goes there to heal—and to help her brother, Keith, a deeply troubled man who's asked her to come home. But she refuses to stay in the family house. The last person she wants to see is the wealthy, controlling mother she escaped years ago. 

Instead, she finds herself living next door to someone else she'd prefer to avoid—Rafe Romero, the wild, reckless boy to whom she lost her virginity at sixteen. He's back on the island, and to her surprise, he's raising a young daughter alone. Maisey's still attracted to him, but her heart's too broken to risk… 

Then something even more disturbing happens. She discovers a box of photographs that evoke distant memories of a little girl, a child Keith remembers, too. Maisey believes the girl must've been their sister, but their mother claims there was no sister. 

Maisey's convinced that child existed. So where is she now? 

My Comments:
Maisey lost her baby to SIDS, and not long thereafter, her husband to another woman.  Now, she can't even write and her agent wants the next book.  She decides to leave New York for the hometown she fled years ago, despite the fact that her relationship with her critical mother is no better now that it was when she was a teen.  When she gets to her hometown, an island, she decides that rather than living at her mother's mansion, she will live at a beach resort owned by her mother.  There she meets her old flame,   The old flame is renovating the resort after a hurricane and he comes across a locked box full of pictures of a girl Maisey becomes convinced is her sister.  Where did she go?  What happened?  Maisey's brother, who suffers from drug addiction and bi-polar disorder thinks he remembers her as well, but he doesn't want Maisey to explore further.  Nevertheless, Maisey does.  

As you may have guessed, this is a two-threaded story.  One thread is the romance between Maisey and Rafe.  Both have suffered loss in their lives, but while Rafe is pushing forward, Maisey is wallowing in her loss and is afraid to move forward.  I liked him more than I liked her, and found him to be more realistic.  While Maisey seems to set limits on her mother, I question her choice to move home at such a vulnerable time in her life.  The only thing I didn't like about their relationship was the fact that they jumped into bed as their first joint activity.  

The second thread deals with the missing sister.  Did she exist?  What happened to her?  How has she affected their lives, even though they can't remember her?  I enjoyed watching Maisey put the pieces together and solve the mystery, though I can't say it was a very realistic story.  

If you are looking for a light romantic mystery to read on the beach, this should fit the bill.  Grade:  B.  

Thanks to the publisher for providing a complimentary review copy via NetGalley.

Saturday, July 25, 2015

Sunday Post

The Sunday Post

Sunday Post is hosted by Kimba at Caffinated Book Reviewer.  You can head over there to see who has linked up and to catch up with the world of book blogging.  Book bloggers gather on Mondays for Mailbox Monday where we brag about the week's acquisitions.  

This was an Edelweiss week.  Here were my downloads:

  I haven't read The Shift yet, but Somewhere There is Still a Sun was terrific.

Two reviews this week:
 My review.  I can't figure out from my stats where they are coming from, but I've had more readers on this post than any I've written in a long time.
My review.  A story I liked with an ending I didn't.

I'm participating in the Let's Cook giveaway, which has given me some new followers.  How was your reading week?

Friday, July 24, 2015

Book Blogger Hop: July 24-30

Book Blogger Hop

Book Blogger Hop is hosted at Ramblings of a Coffee Addicted Writer.

 This week's question is:

Do you use bookmarks? If so, do you match them to the book you're reading
 or do you use random scraps of paper? 

Sometimes I use them; other times I dog ear the book (my bad, I know) or just leave the book open to the page, turned upside down.  If I do use a bookmark, it is just whatever is handy.  

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BYB E-41 Series Clip-on 4 LED Light
BYB E-41 Series Clip-on 4 LED Light
  • ★ BONUS AND UPGRADED. Free AC Adapter, USB cord, Multifunction Clean Cloth Included. Featuring the Rechargeable 1000mAh Lithium Ion built in battery, NO MORE BUYING BATTERIES!
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Paula's Thoughts:
These easy to position and reposition lights are perfect for getting more light where you need it. The nice size of the clip makes it simple to attach to the side of a bowl, a cabinet handle, a book, grill, or just about anywhere that you want. I don't have enough light under my cabinets at night so I found it very helpful to clip this light onto my cutting board while doing prep for dinner the other night. I found the well built clip to be strong and that the lights stayed in the position that I set them at.


Set of 6 1EasyLife Stainless Steel Measuring Spoons
Set of 6 1EasyLife Stainless Steel Measuring Spoons
  • ★ MAKING A PERFECT DISH WILL NEVER BE A DOWNFALL. Preparing a dish requires following direction and right measurement, Luckily with 1Easylife Stainless Steel Measuring Spoons cooking will be quick and gives you an accurate measure for recipes without the hassle
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  • ★ WHY IT IS THE BEST CHOICE FOR YOUR KITCHENS. Refine measurement- ensure Perfect food taste every time Accurate balance - round-shaped spoon heads and perfectly weighted handles, high grade satin brushed stainless steel finish for a long life - no to rust! All around measuring tools - measure dry and liquid ingredients! Engrave US metric Measurement 
  • ★ YOUR FAVORITE MEASURING INGREDIENTS. The 6-piece 1Easylife Stainless-Steel Measuring Spoon Set is designed with innovative round-shaped spoon heads that reach into narrow spice jars and other small containers. These spoons are conveniently connected by a small ring which helps to keep the spoons together as a set after a full day of baking or cooking. 1Easylife includes 6 measuring sizes: 1/8-tsp, 1/4-tsp, 1/2-tsp, 1-tsp, 1/2-Tbsp. and 1-Tbsp. With each measurement conveniently marked on the handle of each spoon, there's no guesswork when adding spices to your dishes. Dishwasher-safe.
  • ★ NO HASSLE, 100% LIFE TIME WARRANTY. We offer 100% life time warranty to make you happy and satisfied with our product, If for any reason you're not completely satisfied, return your Stainless Steel Measuring Cups for a No Questions Asked full refund.

Paula's Thoughts:
I've have had a set of name brand plastic measuring spoons since I set up house keeping more than twenty years ago. Getting me to part with them wasn't going to be easy, but always willing to try new things I gave these a test drive. I found the 1Easlife measuring spoons to be nicely weighted and with the length of the handles I was able to reach into containers with ease. I really like that they take up much less space than my old set and are much easier to get clean. After comparing the two it may be time to retire my old ones.
Instant Read Digital Cooking Thermometer by Chef DeTemple
Instant Read Digital Cooking Thermometer by Chef DeTemple
  • PREVENT OVERCOOKING - Don't ruin an elegant meal or backyard barbecue by serving dry, tough, overcooked meat. If you only use cooking time to determine doneness, you could end up with some pieces being cooked perfectly and others over or underdone - not to mention burnt! You can easily avoid this by using a meat thermometer. When cooked to the proper temperature, meat will stay juicy and tender.         
  • PREVENT ILLNESS - Using a food thermometer greatly reduces your risk of foodborne illness associated with bacteria. The harmful bacteria found in contaminated food can only survive up to a certain temperature, and using a food thermometer is the only way to be 100-percent sure that your food is safe to eat.
  • EASY TO USE - Large LCD display for easy-to-read numbers - No More Squinting! Function buttons include On/Off, Hold and °C/°F conversion. Auto shut-off after 10 minutes saves battery life. Uses (1) AAA battery.
  • MEASURING RANGE AND ACCURACY - Instant read in only 4-7 seconds accurately measuring range of temperatures between -58°F-572°F (-50°C-300°C). Long stainless steel probe to keep your hands safe from heat!
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Paula's Thoughts:
My thermometer arrived the day I was making fried green tomatoes so I used it to make sure that my oil was at the proper temperature. If it's to cold the tomatoes get mushy before the breading gets brown and if it's to hot the outside  burns and the tomatoes are hard. I had bragged to my west coast boyfriend how awesome mine were so getting it right was important. My reputation as a southern cook was on the line! I found that this thermometer was easy to use. I just put one AAA battery in it, turned it on, and flipped open the probe. When I placed the tip in the oil I had a reading in seconds and with the nice big readout I didn't need my glasses to see it. I am very happy with this product and would recommend it to anyone with confidence.

Wood Chef Hand-crafted Ripple-cut Gourmet Cheese Slicer
Wood Chef Hand-crafted Ripple-cut Gourmet Cheese Slicer
  • Cutting tool for cheese that gives the cheese a wavy texture
  • Smoothly cuts thick or thin slices
  • Comfortable grip is easy to use
  • Durable and replaceable stainless steel wire with adjustable tension
  • Carefully handmade in the USA from beautiful, natural wood/brass/stainless steel.
  • Adjustable tension, stainless steel wire stays tight to carve neat, enticing, wavy slices every time.
  • Comfortable grip for all ages, hand-held, light-weight, and simple to use.
  • Thin or thick slices carved, depending on how you angle the slicer into the cheese.
  • Safe for children. No sharp edges.
  • Makes snacking and eating fun!
  • Perfect tool for creating sandwiches, pizza, crackers, snacks, use at parties and picnics.
  • Awesome gift at low cost for Christmas presents, birthdays, weddings, office, or any special occasion.
  • Gift Box comes with each one for convenient storage.
  • Durable quality will last for years and won't wear out.
  • Choose from wild cherry wood, black walnut, or try both!

Paula's Thoughts:
With so many of or utensils now having plastic composite handles I hold onto my old ones that have real handles and find myself going back to using them. I just love the feel of wood and have been known to spend a lot of money just to purchase one brand of knife that has a wood handle. So when my cheese slicer arrived I couldn't wait to test it. It works for all types of cheese so I got out some block cheese that I had in the fridge to see how well it worked and felt in my hand.  It worked wonderfully and what fun slices! We often do cheese and fruit for snacks and since it is safe for the little ones to use I can't wait for my grandchildren to come over at use it to make their own fun snacks.

Bitpsy Professional Jumbo Lemon Squeezer
Bitpsy Professional Jumbo Lemon Squeezer
  • HIGH QUALITY STAINLESS STEEL - This Premium Lemon squeezer made out of the strongest material available and WILL NOT BREAK when squeezing. This hand polished Citrus Juicer will not peel or rust.
  • SO EASY TO USE - No matter if you choose to squeeze lemons, limes or blood oranges, this Btipsy Lemon Squeezer will make your job so easy. Fits for both kids and old men, This Squeezer is so convenient to use and with an effortless squeeze you can get every bit of juice out of the fruit.
  • EASY TO CLEAN - Once finished using the Lemon Juicer, it's very easy to clean it by hand or just placing it inside the dishwasher since this Lemon Squeezer is DISHWASHER SAFE. So feel free to clean it whatever you'd like.
  • RISK FREE - With a 3 YEARS WARRANTY, we are committed to our 100% customer satisfaction so if you find that you are not

Paula's Thoughts:
The all metal construction makes this juicer strong and durable. Plus, since it is made out of stainless steel I get longevity and don't have to worry about it rusting. With a very small kitchen I have very limited drawer space in my home. The hook makes it easy to hang off off one of my many cup hooks that are on every open spot in my kitchen. We eat a lot of fish and salads that we use fresh squeezed lemon and orange for and having it hanging and not hidden in a drawer keeps it handy. I found that the nice big handles were easy to grasp and squeeze so that I could get all the juice out.

Eco Bamboo Cutting Board with Handle
Eco Bamboo Cutting Board with Handle
  • This eco friendly cutting board can handle just about everything in your kitchen, from slicing cheese to carving bone-in beef roasts.
  • Highly durable. Made with premium, hand selected odor-resistant organic bamboo, harder than maple wood
  • Durable stainless steel handle for easy gripMade from 100% high quality antimicrobial recyclable bamboo with Non-Toxic food grade adhesive - starch from a sweet potato
  • Easy to clean and maintain - Easily wash and clean off bacteria and food particles with some hot water and soap then let it air dry.

Paula's Thoughts:
In the last few years, bamboo has become one of the most popular materials for cutting boards because of it's low maintenance, superior health and sanitation qualities. Not only does it look good but it is a green, renewable and earth friendly material. The hardness of a bamboo cutting board, plus the fact that it very resistant to bacteria makes it a must have in my kitchen. I tested my new board by cutting some yellow squash, zucchini, and cucumbers with a brand new ceramic knife and could not find one mark from doing it. All you have to do is make a habit of never letting it soak and wiping it dry after washing  and with this easy, proper care this board will stay beautiful for years.

VOS Professional Classic 8 Inch Ceramic Chef's Knife
VOS Professional Classic 8 Inch Ceramic Chef's Knife

  • Sharpness - Our ultra-sharp advanced ceramic blade will retain its original sharpness up to 15 times longer than steel blades.
  • Purity - Rust-proof, will never brown foods, impervious to acids and oils, no metallic taste or smell. Advanced ceramic is a pure & healthy alternative.
  • Lightweight - Typically half the weight of metal-based knives, offers total ease of use with the most difficult cutting tasks. Ergonomic handles produce a well-balanced, highly controlled grip.
  • Easy to Clean - The fact that advanced ceramic does not absorb any food element, allows just a quick rinse and wipe with a kitchen towel.8 Inch Chef Ceramic knife For slicing fruits, vegetables and boneless meats.

Paula's Thoughts:
This is my first ceramic knife so I wanted to know what some of the advantages of a ceramic knife were. I found out that they include hardness, ceramic is second only to diamonds; weight, it's much lighter than metal; durability, because these knives keep their razor sharp edge and will not wear out like metal; no metal means no rust; and the ability to resist stains and odors. Because each ceramic knife goes through a long manufacturing process which makes it high end you can expect quality and longevity from your knife. I tested my new ceramic knife by cutting some yellow squash, zucchini, and cucumbers. Even with difficulties from injuries with my hands I found the handle was very easy to hold and grip. It sliced the veggies with ease and with very little pressure from me. With my garden producing lots of vegetables this will be my new go to knife for prepping them.


The Learning Journey Play and Learn Shopping Basket Playset
The Learning Journey Play and Learn Shopping Basket Playset
Kids can enjoy the complete shopping experience with the Play & Learn Shopping Basket! Our kid-sized Shopping Basket is easy to carry with its lightweight plastic construction and big handles. Fun Accessories include a variety of plastic and cardboard food items. Ages 3+ years.
  • 24 plastic and cardboard play food items
  • Large handles for easy carrying
  • Encourages imagination
  • Durable, lightweight plastic construction

Paula's Thoughts:
This is perfect for getting  the little cook in your home playing, imagining, and creating. The basket is made from thick plastic making it strong and durable. The food that comes with it is sure to keep them entertained for hours. I've ordered many imaginary milk shakes and french fries playing drive thru with my grandchildren so I know they are going to love playing grocery with all these fun items. I really like the bright and bold colors. They are very appealing and fun.

Elegant Stainless Steel Salt and Pepper Grinder Set
Elegant Stainless Steel Salt and Pepper Grinder Set
  • HIGH QUALITY GLASS AND STAINLESS STEEL GRINDER SET This glass and stainless steel salt and pepper grinder set features a modern design and is stylish and elegant enough for kitchen-to-table use! Each set contains one salt grinder and one pepper grinder which can hold 3/4 cup of salt, peppercorns or any other spice, in its generously sized glass reservoir. *Salt and pepper not included.
  • BUILT FOR CONVENIENCE AND FUNCTION Unlike other grinder sets, this pair has their grinding mechanism on the top of the grinder, ensuring salt and pepper ends up only on your food -- not all over your table. The ceramic grinder is non-corrosive, won't absorb flavors and is easily adjustable from a fine to coarse grind.
  • EASY REFILLING WITH NO MESSES Don't you hate constantly having to refill your salt and pepper grinders? Standing about 5 1/4 inches tall this set is the perfect size to cut down on constant refills without being bulky. When you do have to refill, the clear glass bodies will let you know when it's time! The stainless steel top easily screws off revealing a wide opening for easy and mess-free refills.
  •  ELEGANT DESIGN With its brushed stainless steel encasing, glass body and ceramic grinder, this unique duo is a professional, sleek addition to any kitchen, with a stainless steel lid that truly "caps" off this beautiful set. No tacky electrical grinders here means no batteries required--only a few effortless twists with your hand to experience that fresh himalayan salt, pepper, or other spice.
  • CUSTOMER GUARANTEE We're confident you'll love our Dual Refillable Salt & Pepper Grinders. However, if you're not completely satisfied, we'll give you a 100% refund within 90 days of purchase--NO QUESTIONS ASKED. We have the best customer service on Amazon, and YOU, the customer, are our top priority. Add a set to your shopping cart today for a risk-free culinary experience!

Paula's Thoughts:
I just ordered this beautiful set two days ago and was so excited to try them. Don't they look amazing? They arrived yesterday and look even better in person! The attention to detail and quality is obvious. The Kitchen Classique Grinders are a nice large size so they will hold a lot more than any of the previous grinders that I have owned. I found it really easy to open each grinder to fill it. Just unscrew the metal part from the glass, fill, and screw it back on. Each grinder has a lid to keep it from spilling accidentally, or for grinding what you need then adding it to your food plus you can adjust the coarseness to your liking. I am very happy with this product and would recommend it to my friends and family with confidence.

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Thursday, July 23, 2015

Seven Quick Takes About the Seven Sacraments


Who doesn't love to see a baby baptized?  By baptizing infants, who have no say in the process (except to complain as it is being performed), we are saying that baptism and the grace it confers, is a freely given gift from God.  However, should it be a freely given gift of the Church?  In short, whose babies should be permitted to be baptized?  The Church says that there should be a "founded hope" that the baby will be raised as a Catholic.  Baptism is considered to be a sacrament of initiation, yet we baptize more than a few babies of people who aren't really part of our community--they may have been initiated years ago, but they haven't really maintained their membership.  Does anyone belong to a parish that reaches out to new parents, particularly those who do not regularly attend Mass, to try to welcome them into, and make them a part of, the parish community?  We had to attend the Baptism preparation seminar twice, since it had been more than a certain number of years between our first child and our third.  I barely remember the first seminar but the associate pastor did stop by and knowing the kind of person he was, I'm sure he welcomed everyone but there was no follow-up after the class.  The second time around we were there with two other couples who also had older kids.  It was inconvenient for us and we learned nothing about baptism that I hadn't taught my third grade religion class that year.  The preparation seminar seemed like a "hoop", nothing more.  It seems to me that this could be a time to welcome a couple who hasn't been attending church regularly and to offer community support but instead of the meals for new moms that some Protestant churches furnish, our parish only offered a bad class.


The sacrament we love to hate.  Yes, it feels wonderful once you do it, but getting there?  Saying it?  We don't really have to, do we?  I could talk theology or something here, but I'll just settle for practical.  Why are confessions always (at least in most parishes around here) in the middle of Saturday afternoon?  Yes, it is an excuse, and yes, I know it is an excuse, but that really isn't very convenient for much of anyone except the 4:00 p.m. Mass crowd of old people.  I keep reading that people should go to confession more often but if I was trying to "sell" confessions, I'd offer them right after Mass, and use the homily to encourage people to go.  


The source and summit of our faith, or a weekly (if that) routine?  I read a story once about a non-Christian foreigner who was being given a tour of town, including the historic local Catholic church.  He asked about the tabernacle light and it was explained to him that we believe Jesus, our God, is truly present in the Eucharist, which is kept in that box,and that the light is there to show His presence.  The man replied that the guide didn't really believe that.  She replied that she did, it was the teaching of the Church.  He replied that it may be the teaching of the church but obviously no one believed it because they were the only ones there and she was standing there talking to him, not on her knees before God.  How easy it is to take the Eucharist for granted.


Talk about a sacrament no one knows what to do with.  Is it graduation from religious ed?  Is it something that should happen at the same time as baptism (as our Eastern brothers and sisters do), or at the same time as First Communion (like in some dioceses) or at the end of Catholic grammar school, or in high school?  Is it a gift, or something that has to be earned?  I say either confirm young kids (making it a gift, and counting on the Holy Spirit to do his job) or wait until people are adults and request it.  In high school it is a carrot to get kids to religious ed (or more precisely for parents to send them for the required preparation) but church attendance after confirmation shows that it is not an adult claiming of the faith chosen for them as infants.  


I wonder if our marriage preparation programs help or hurt when it comes to getting couples to participate in the life of the Church and to raise their children in the faith?  Those of you who work in marriage prep, have you seen non-practicing couples return to the practice of the faith because of it?  Have you seen marriage preparation programs change hearts from the secular view of marriage to the church view?  Have you seen faith-filled couples grow in their faith as a result of your programs?  If the answers to those questions are "yes" then do you think the "yes" applies to enough couples to make up for those who chose the easier path of marrying in another church or at the park?  Have you ever considered that by discouraging pregnant couples from getting married before the baby's birth, the Church is playing into the "marriage is optional in child rearing" mentality?

Holy Orders

I've heard ordinations are up, and that is a good thing!

Anointing of the Sick

I've seen this sacrament administered en-masse via a line at Mass that resembled the Communion line.  Apparently that parish (we were visiting) did this on a regular basis and the church was full of old people (it was also the Saturday vigil Mass, which around here is generally the old folks mass).  I've never seen it administered one-on-one.  When my dad was dying, the priest anointed him before he left the hospital the last time, but not after he began active dying, even though the priest came by once or more daily during that time.

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Wednesday, July 22, 2015

The Color of Light: My Review

The Color of Light (Goddesses Anonymous)

About the Book:
For more than a decade minister Analiese Wagner has felt privileged to lead her parishioners along a well-lit path. Her commitment has never been seriously tested until the frigid night she encounters a homeless family huddling in the churchyard. Offering them shelter in a vacant parish house apartment and taking teenage Shiloh Fowler—a girl desperate to rescue her parents—under her wing, she tests the loyalty and faith of her congregation. 

Isaiah Colburn, the Catholic priest who was her first mentor and the man she secretly longed for, understands her struggles only too well. At a crossroads, he's suddenly reappeared in her life, torn between his priesthood and his growing desire for a future with Analiese. 

Divided between love and vows they've taken, both must face the possibilities of living very different lives or continuing to serve their communities. With a defeated family's trust and her own happiness on the line, Analiese must define for herself where darkness ends and light begins.

My Comments:
Have you ever decided to read a book, even though you were pretty sure you were going to hate the ending?  Since I've read and loved the other Goddesses Anonymous books, I decided to read this one too, though by reading the blurb above, I was pretty sure Isaiah was going to end up leaving the priesthood for Analiese (Harlequin does publish romances, not tragedies).  I liked the book anyway, but I won't give it the "A" I've given other books in the series because I believe in keeping promises.

Like the other "Goddess" books, this one features a romance between one of the goddesses and someone else, along with the story of someone they help.  Analiese was a widowed before they divorced news reporter out on a story when she met Isaiah, who was comforting the people she was sent to interview.  She realized she wanted more out of life and through a friendship with Isaiah, came to the realization that she had a call to the ordained ministry.  She fell in love with him, but realized that he could not be hers and keeping in touch became  painful. Isaiah was a Jesuit priest.  What that means is that instead of working directly for a bishop in an area, he belonged to a community of priests and brothers that pooled resources and expenses and engaged in ministry as a group.  Some Jesuits teach, some are parish priests and some, as in any large organization, are administrators.  Isaiah entered the priesthood to care for people, but for the last several years, despite the fact that he has asked to be in a parish, Isaiah has been an administrator, a job he hates.  Between hating his job and reaching a certain age, he is questioning whether he should remain a Jesuit and a priest, because he has carried a flame for Analiese all these years.  He is now on sabbatical trying to decide what to do with the rest of his life.

Analiese was ordained by the United Church of Christ, but she is pastor of an old-money non-denominational church is Ashville . She has given her life to her work and is turning forty this year.  She isn't unhappy, but she is tired, and, at times, lonely.  One night she finds a homeless family setting up camp on church property, and she invites them to use the apartment the church Sexton (custodian) has recently vacated. Of course some members of the congregation object, and of course Analiese wins that battle.  We hear her sermon on the Good Samaritan.  The story follows the homeless family from the time Aaliese takes them in until they achieve some level of independence through the help of the goddesses.  We learn how they became homeless and see how difficult it can be for people in that position to turn the ship around.  We see how well-meaning people can do more harm than good, and how those who mean to harm can sometimes seem to do good.  

Isaiah admits he is more of a people priest than a doctrine one, and at one point he tells Analiese that when counselling teen boys he did all he could to encourage them to use condoms without actually telling them to do so (the Catholic church teaches that both non-marital sex and birth control are sins).  Analiese and Isaiah end up in bed before marriage.  While the scenes aren't graphic, they are there, and neither one feels guilty.  

I liked the basic story, and if Isaiah had been a widower who had been faithful to his wife despite his attraction to Analiese and was now free to pursue a relationship with her, I would have loved this book.  I just did not like the way Emile Richards dealt with the Catholic church and priestly celibacy. 

I'd like to thank the publisher for making a review copy available via NetGalley.  Grade:  B

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